cheeseburger in paradise

Yes I did.
Every.
Last.
Stinkin.
Bite.
religion in public schools
I came across a post by Wym that talked about religion in the public school system and after I commented on her post I knew I had more to say especially around this time of year.
Imagine that.
Here’s the bottom line [look there I will give you my bottom line opinion first so technically you don’t even have to read my justification and can skip to the comments. I am too nice.] I don’t think that religion has any place in our public school system.
Period.
No ifs, ands or buts.
I grew up a Jewish girl in a very Christian area of Central Texas. I was one of two Jewish kids in my entire high school. At times when I was younger [in elementary] it was hard. I can remember parent’s of friends not letting their child play with me.
I remember praying to God at night telling him that my family and I didn’t deserve to go to Hell because we weren’t bad people and that I hoped He still loved me.
I rememeber making Santa Christmas cards every year to bring home to my parents.
I remember having to say the Lord’s prayer before track meets and being the only girl who didn’t know the words.
My problem with religion in public schools is that public schools are funded by tax dollars.
My tax dollars.
I pay my school taxes every year and the last time I checked so did all the other members of my community.
I am Jewish. I am sure there are Muslims, Buddhists, Atheists, Christians, etc…whom also all pay school taxes.
So why should my child [or me when I was younger] be subjected to religion in my state run school when people of ALL religions pay taxes to that school system?
How is that fair?
If you want your child to have religion in their school then send them to a privately funded private school.
If you can’t afford private school then teach them about religion in your home and through your place of worship.
I know this is a touchy subject but it is one that I am so passionate about because I don’t think it is fair for any child to feel as alienated as I did at certain times in my life.
I know we live in a country that gives us the gift of freedom of religion. I feel like we are slowly and surely rubbing away what that means. The religious right movement in this country scares me and it has crept into our public school system and it is growing.
I honestly feel like maybe this is a point you won’t get until you aren’t the majority. You have to be the minority to see how it effects you. When you are the majority it doesn’t seem like what you are doing is offensive until you get a taste of the other side.
In the end, this is my long winded way of saying that as long as everyone’s tax dollars go to fund public schools then no religion belongs in that safe place where we send out children to learn.
**Edited to add: please be respectful in the comments section. Everyone has different religious/non-religious views. I have and will continue to delete comments that I find to be hurtful, rude or bullying to any one of any religion or of no religion. I understand that religion is a sensitive topic but ask that everyone please be respectful.
my one holiday recipe
I don’t like to bake.
I don’t measure, sift, or fold. I like to cook.
Big difference.
But I have one holiday [bakish] recipe in my arsenal that everyone loves.
Pumpkin Gingerbread Trifle
1 (14 ounce) package gingerbread mix
2 (1 ounce) packages, vanilla sugar-free, fat-free instant pudding mix
3 cups cold skim milk
1 (15 ounce) can solid packed pumpkin
¾ teaspoon ground cinnamon
¼ teaspoon ground nutmeg
¼ teaspoon ground ginger
2 ½ cups fat-free Cool Whip
½ cup gingersnaps, roughly crushed
Bake the gingerbread according to package directions; cool completely.
Place milk in a large mixing bowl. Slowly add pudding mixes while mixer is running. Beat for 2 minutes on high-speed. Chill pudding in refrigerator for 5 to 10 minutes. Add pumpkin and spices to pudding and stir well. Set aside.
To assemble trifle, crumble ½ of the gingerbread in the bottom or trifle bowl. Gently spread ½ of pudding mixture over gingerbread. Spread 1 ¼ cup of Cool Whip on top of pudding. Repeat layers one more time. Sprinkle crushed gingersnaps over the Cool Whip topping for garnish.
Refrigerate overnight and/or chill until ready to serve. Serves 12.

You can also get really cutesy with it and makes these individual trifles which I did one year in martini glasses.

I promise these will be a huge hit and it’s pretty!! I know we all say looks don’t count but c’mon they totally do! 😉
Do you have a signature holiday dish?
my normal isn’t your normal
I was waiting for Keith outside of a gas station. We had been walking and he wanted to run in to grab a bottle of water. There was a man waiting on his wife who was also inside and would it surprise anyone that I ended up talking to him? [I mean I am so shy and all…..] He was telling me about a great burger place that he and his wife had recently eaten at and loved.
I am always ready for a good burger recommendation.
He then, in all seriousness, said that if I wanted to really go off the beaten path I should order their sweet potato fries.
He took my shocked silence as confirmation of what he thought.
He laughed and said I know I know it sounds weird but they were delicious.
It was in that moment that I realized my normal isn’t his normal.
Sweet potato fries are pretty normal in my house and yet he thought it was an oddity that he couldn’t believe tasted good.
I wondered what other of my normal things might seem to odd to others.
- I think it is normal to sleep with a butcher knife under my bed when I am home alone for a weekend. [I am a scardy pants]
- I think it is normal to always wash my hair when I shower.
- I think it is normal to read the last chapter of a book before starting it.
- I think it is normal to say “I love you” whenever I hang up the phone after a conversation with a family member even if we have more than one phone conversation a day.
- I think it is normal to have things like almond milk, hummus, raw nuts, Fage and quinoa in my house at any given time.
- I think it is normal to like Coke over Pepsi.
- I think it is normal to put spinach in my smoothies.
- Finally I think it is normal to love coffee and hate tea.
What is something you consider normal than someone else might not?


